Asperger’s Syndrome is a neurodevelopmental disorder on the autism spectrum. People with Asperger’s often have difficulties with social interaction, communication, and exhibit restricted or repetitive behaviors. However, many Aspies, as they are affectionately called, have above average intelligence and abilities in specific areas.
If you are an Aspie Christian, you may wonder how you can use your unique gifts to serve God and make a difference for His kingdom. Here are some biblical insights on how Aspies can fulfill their God-given purpose:
Use your special interests and abilities for God
Aspies often have intense interests and abilities in specific subjects like science, math, history, music, technology, and more. These can be used in ministry. For example, if you love technology, you could serve on your church’s media team running soundboards and presentations. If you excel at research, consider assisting pastors in sermon preparation. Use your expertise to benefit and educate fellow Christians. As Colossians 3:23 says, “Whatever you do, work heartily, as for the Lord and not for men.”
Seek roles that align with your strengths
Many Aspies thrive in behind-the-scenes ministry roles that allow them to use their gifts while avoiding overstimulation. Some great options include working in children’s church, stuffing bulletins, decorating for holidays, managing databases, cleaning the church, or serving online through podcasts, devotional writing, or social media. Look for ways to contribute that play to your strengths and align with your sensitivities.
Find community in small groups or one-on-one
Large crowds and noisy environments can be draining for Aspies. While continuing to attend main services, build relationships and community through small groups, Bible studies, or one-on-one discipleship. Ecclesiastes 4:9-10 says, “Two are better than one, because they have a good reward for their toil. For if they fall, one will lift up his fellow.” God designed us for fellowship with other believers.
Focus on using your gifts, not “fitting in”
It’s easy for Aspies to feel different and left out in social gatherings. Remember that God has created you unique and values the contributions only you can bring to the body of Christ. As Romans 12:4-6 states, “For as in one body we have many members, and the members do not all have the same function, so we, though many, are one body in Christ, and individually members one of another. Having gifts that differ according to the grace given to us, let us use them.” Be secure in how God made you.
Find acceptance and belonging in Jesus
While relationships with others may be difficult, your relationship with Jesus provides the understanding and belonging your soul truly needs. Psalm 139:13-14 declares, “For you formed my inward parts; you knitted me together in my mother’s womb. I praise you, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made.” Bring your hurts and anxieties to the Lord in prayer. His love for you is unshakeable.
Focus on producing spiritual fruit
While facing social struggles, the most important goal is developing Christlike character. Galatians 5:22-23 describes the fruit of the Spirit: “But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control…” As you abide in Jesus, the Holy Spirit will produce His likeness in you. This brings glory to God.
See the value in all people
Aspies have much to offer the church through their unique abilities. But likewise, be open to learning from fellow believers who view life differently than you. 1 Corinthians 12:14-20 emphasizes the importance of each member of the body, despite differences. Approach others with grace and humility.
Rest in prayers of intercession
Ask other Christians to lift you up in prayer regarding the challenges you face. James 5:16 shares, “Therefore, confess your sins to one another and pray for one another, that you may be healed. The prayer of a righteous person has great power as it is working.” God works through the prayers of His people on your behalf.
Remember God’s calling for you
If you ever feel useless or wonder why God made you the way you are, remember that He has planned good works for you to accomplish. Ephesians 2:10 declares, “For we are his workmanship, created in Christ Jesus for good works, which God prepared beforehand, that we should walk in them.” Have confidence in His purposes.
Trust the Holy Spirit’s empowerment
Fulfilling God’s calling seems impossible in our own strength. But Jesus promised the Holy Spirit to help us. Acts 1:8 says, “But you will receive power when the Holy Spirit has come upon you, and you will be my witnesses…” Rely on supernatural ability.
Imitate Christ’s example
When facing trials in relationships or communication, look to Jesus’ pattern of selfless service, boundary setting, and prayerful obedience to the Father. 1 Peter 2:21 encourages, “For to this you have been called, because Christ also suffered for you, leaving you an example, so that you might follow in his steps.” Keep your eyes fixed on Him.
Advocate for those in need
Many people with autism face marginalization and mistreatment. Isaiah 1:17 challenges believers to “Learn to do good; seek justice, correct oppression; bring justice to the fatherless, plead the widow’s cause.” Fight for neurodiversity and inclusion in your sphere of influence.
Share your story authentically
If comfortable, share your personal experiences as an Aspie openly within the church. Your vulnerability and perspectives can foster greater acceptance for those who relate. 2 Corinthians 1:3-4 states that God “comforts us in all our affliction, so that we may be able to comfort those who are in any affliction, with the comfort with which we ourselves are comforted by God.”
Connect with the disability ministry
Many churches have specific groups or events for individuals with disabilities and their families. Getting involved can provide encouragement through relationships with others who face similar challenges. Ecclesiastes 4:12 reminds, “And though a man might prevail against one who is alone, two will withstand him—a threefold cord is not quickly broken.” Seek support.
Remember that all have sinned
Comparing yourself to others is dangerous, as all fall short of God’s glory. Romans 3:23-24 declares, “For all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God, and are justified by his grace as a gift, through the redemption that is in Christ Jesus.” Your worth is based on God’s love, not societal standards.
Look forward to eternity
Your struggles with social skills and fitting in are only temporary. Heaven promises perfect communion with God, Jesus, and all believers for eternity. Revelation 21:3-4 proclaims, “And I heard a loud voice from the throne saying, “Behold, the dwelling place of God is with man. He will dwell with them…He will wipe away every tear from their eyes, and death shall be no more.”
Living with Asperger’s as a Christian comes with both challenges and opportunities to rely on God’s strength. He lovingly created you just as you are and has good works prepared for you. Trust Him to help you serve and connect in ways that are life-giving and fruitful. You have an important role to play in building God’s Kingdom!