Why should we not rejoice when our enemy falls (Proverbs 24:17)?
The Bible teaches us to love our enemies and to refrain from taking pleasure in their downfall. Proverbs 24:17 says, “Do not rejoice when your enemy falls, and let not your heart be glad when he stumbles.” This goes against our natural instincts for revenge and retribution when someone has wronged us. However, as Christians, we are called to a higher standard of conduct. Here are some key reasons why we should not rejoice when our enemy falls:
1. It is sinful to rejoice at another’s misfortune
The motivation behind rejoicing at an enemy’s downfall is one of bitterness, hatred and pride. We feel that they are getting what they deserve. But the Bible clearly teaches that harboring such attitudes is sinful. Romans 12:19 says “Beloved, never avenge yourselves, but leave it to the wrath of God, for it is written, ‘Vengeance is mine, I will repay, says the Lord.'” When we rejoice at another’s misfortune, we are taking on the role of God and acting as judge over them. This goes against God’s command to love our enemies and bless those who persecute us (Matthew 5:44).
2. It fails to recognize our own shortcomings
Rejoicing at an enemy’s downfall demonstrates a lack of humility and self-awareness. We have all sinned and fallen short of God’s standards (Romans 3:23). When we rejoice at another’s failure or hardship, we are acting as if we are superior to them and above such failures. But the truth is, we too deserve hardship and misfortune as consequences for our own sin. We should approach such situations with empathy, recognizing our shared human frailty. As Jesus said in Matthew 7:3, “…why do you see the speck that is in your brother’s eye, but do not notice the log that is in your own eye?” Rejoicing at another’s misfortune ignores our own moral shortcomings.
3. It discourages repentance and reconciliation
Gloating over an enemy’s failure often makes true repentance and reconciliation less likely. When we rub salt in the wound, so to speak, it builds up more bitterness and hostility in them towards us. They are less likely to admit fault, apologize or seek to make amends. But by maintaining an attitude of grace and compassion, we create space for repentance and healing of the relationship. Paul wrote in Romans 12:20-21, “If your enemy is hungry, feed him; if he is thirsty, give him something to drink; for by so doing you will heap burning coals on his head. Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good.” Putting others first can melt hard hearts and open the door for reconciliation.
4. It fails to trust in God’s justice
When we rejoice at an enemy’s misfortune, we are taking matters into our own hands because we doubt that God will deal justly with those who have harmed us. We pridefully assume that we have a better sense of fairness and justice than an all-knowing, all-powerful God. But the Bible assures us that wickedness will not go unpunished. Psalm 37:1-2 tells us, “Fret not yourself because of evildoers; be not envious of wrongdoers! For they will soon fade like the grass and wither like the green herb.” And 2 Thessalonians 1:6 says “God considers it just to repay with affliction those who afflict you.” When we rejoice in another’s downfall, we reveal a lack of trust in God’s promise to repay the wicked.
5. It fails to recognize our shared humanity
Rejoicing at an enemy’s failure shows no concern for their wellbeing and reduces them to the level of objects we are indifferent to. But no matter how badly someone behaves, we must remember they are fellow human beings made in God’s image. They have dignity and worth in God’s eyes. They experience pain and hardship just as intensely as we do. By rejoicing in their suffering, we cut ourselves off from compassion towards them. But Jesus consistently showed care and concern for those who opposed him, including Judas at the Last Supper. He calls us to see the humanity in even our worst enemies.
6. It stunts our own spiritual growth
Rejoicing in another’s downfall keeps our focus on their wrongs against us. This breeds continued bitterness and an “us vs them” mentality. It prevents us from moving forward in our walk with Christ. Forgiveness and letting go of grudges are essential to growing spiritually. As Christ said in Matthew 6:15, “But if you do not forgive others their sins, your Father will not forgive your sins.” And Hebrews 12:15 warns us against allowing bitterness to take root in our hearts. By rejoicing in an enemy’s failure, we harbor the very bitterness that stunts our joy and relationship with God. We miss out on the freedom of forgiveness.
7. It is unChristlike and hinders our Christian witness
As followers of Jesus, we are called to emulate his examples in our conduct. But rejoicing when an enemy stumbles is the opposite of how Christ responded to his enemies. Even while being crucified, Jesus prayed for the forgiveness of those who persecuted him saying “Father forgive them, for they know not what they do” (Luke 23:34). Our reactions to others’ downfalls can either attract people to Christ or repel them away. If we appear petty and vengeful it distorts the image of Christ in us. But by extending mercy and grace to enemies, we reflect God’s character to the world. Our response should always be guided by “What would Jesus do?”
8. It ignores the lessons God may be teaching our enemy
When we rejoice at an enemy’s failures, we act as if we know better than God how that person should be treated. But Scripture tells us that God disciplines those he loves (Hebrews 12:6). Their “fall” may actually be God orchestrating events to bring them to repentance and greater dependence on Him. By rejoicing in their hardship, we oppose God’s purposes for their life. Joseph told his brothers who had sold him into slavery, “You intended to harm me, but God intended it for good to accomplish what is now being done, the saving of many lives” (Genesis 50:20). Outward appearances can be deceiving. God may use what seems like a “fall” to accomplish something greater in that person’s life.
9. It fails to overcome evil with good
Rejoicing when an enemy stumbles merely perpetuates the cycle of hatred and bitterness. But God calls us to overcome evil with good – to proactively bless those who persecute us (Romans 12:14-21). This generous and unconventional approach to enemies often awakens their conscience and opens the door to life-change. After the prophet Elisha showed kindness to enemy soldiers, 2 Kings 6:22-23 says, “He prepared a great feast for them, and after they had finished eating and drinking, he sent them away, and they returned to their master. So the bands from Aram stopped raiding Israel’s territory.” Our good response can break the cycle of evil and lead to lasting change.
In summary, rejoicing when an enemy falls is a very natural human response. However, as Christians we are called to a higher standard. The Bible’s timeless principles exhort us to treat enemies with love, mercy and compassion. This aligns with Christ’s model and leads to greater spiritual growth and Christian witness. It also creates opportunity for repentance and reconciliation. By leaving justice and vengeance to God, we can overcome evil with good and see His Kingdom advance. Though difficult, trusting God’s greater plan requires setting aside our pride, desire for revenge and rejoicing when others stumble.